THE 5 SECRETS TO MAKE THEM TURN TO LOOK AT YOU
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1 - EVERYTHING STARTS (AND ENDS) INSIDE YOU
We know what you're thinking: that what you see is what you see, and in this case, that's what matters. And we're sorry to say we only half agree with you.
Obviously it inevitably happens on the outside, of course, because that's what you "see" but:
One thing is what you "see," and another, much more important and impactful thing is what you "perceive." And, believe us, what you perceive always begins and ends within.
Imagine a spectacularly beautiful woman according to the current beauty standards. Imagine her walking uncertainly, wearing clothes that make her look uncomfortable, with her eyes downcast, looking like she's just left the house feeling uneasy about herself. Do you think she'll turn heads?
Now imagine a woman with a different kind of beauty—a little fatter, a little thinner, super short, or super tall, whatever. Imagine her walking confidently, with her head held high, smiling elegantly, radiating charm with her step, wearing clothes that make her look 100% comfortable in her skin, and with some special detail in her look that makes her look unique. Do you think she'll turn heads?
We want to dedicate our maximum effort to this point because it is truly the most important.
We all know what we need to feel good inside. We say it all starts on the inside because it begins hours before you leave the house. If you have an important dinner or event coming up, take the time you need to "get into the mood," visualize how beautiful you're going to look and how much fun you're going to have. You may have had a terrible day, but if you do a "reset" exercise, in a few minutes or a few hours you'll be a different person, or you'll be essentially your best self. Put on some music, apply masks to your hair and skin, take a bath or a good shower while listening to whatever music your body is asking for at that moment. Make yourself a cup of tea when you leave, or drink some juice or water. Put on your creams, self-tanner if you like to look tanned, wear your makeup naturally but in a way that makes you feel radiant and style your hair in a way that makes you feel like a goddess, whether super straight so that it moves incredibly when you walk, or with waves that make you feel super sensual or with a semi-updo or semi-casual updo that makes you feel comfortable and with that air of "I go natural but I know I look perfect."
As you can see, we've talked about the external part, but from an internal perspective. While you're in these processes, you're relaxing, empowering, and becoming the best version of yourself you can be that very day.
That's what it's all about. It's about saying, this is me, but today I'm going to give it my all to be the best me I can be.
If you just listen to us on this point, we guarantee you'll be amazed at the results. And we'd love to hear from you.
The other day I was at the doctor's office waiting for my daughter's appointment, and a girl walked in wearing a basic navy blue T-shirt and below-the-knee navy blue leggings. Her hair was tied back in a ponytail, shiny, straight, a color somewhere between brown and blonde. Her skin was completely makeup-free, but with that glow of well-cared-for and hydrated skin. As she walked by, she gave off an incredibly subtle and feminine vanilla scent. She must have worn a size 44-46. I wasn't very tall. And I turned to look at her. I wasn't the only one. And not only that, she inspired me so much that the next day I ran out and bought a basic navy blue T-shirt and some leggings that were the closest I could find to hers. And, honestly, I think she rocked that look much better than I do with a size 36. And there are tons of other cases like that!
That's why we tell you, in conclusion to this very important point, that turning heads has nothing to do with sizes or beauty standards. Everything starts on the inside (in your home and your mind) and everything ends on the inside (attitude, confidence, believing in yourself).
2 - CHOOSE FLOWERY CLOTHES
Let's get into more of a clothing topic. Although in the case of the girl from earlier, we mentioned that she was wearing leggings and a T-shirt, and it would be great if you internalized that example, now we're going to focus on getting people to turn and look at you when you go, for example, to a special dinner, an event, as a guest...
Secret/trick that always works: choose a flowing piece. And preferably long. Either a maxi skirt or a maxi dress. The kind of clothes that create a unique movement as you walk.
There's nothing sexier and more feminine than seeing a woman walking confidently, accompanied by the movement of her clothes. It's stunning. Try it!
3 - BET ON YOUR BACK
A traditional front neckline may draw a lot of attention to the area, yes. But it's the obvious, the easy thing, what everyone wears and does.
But not everyone dares to wear a plunging back. And it's one of the most sensual, subtle, and striking things you can wear. Don't worry so much about the type of bra you're going to wear (the biggest argument of all); there are thousands of solutions at lingerie stores or on Amazon itself so you can wear a low-cut back garment regardless of your bust size. Trust us, or ask us if you have any questions.
We assure you that if you do everything in point 1 and wear a dress with a nice low back, you'll be the one turning heads this summer.
4 - PAY CLOSE ATTENTION TO FOOTWEAR
Very, very important. And in line with point number 1. It's essential that you feel comfortable and confident. And no one can feel that way with the wrong shoes. Prioritize comfort, trust us.
Thinking about wearing a pair of newly purchased heels for a special event or a getaway? Think twice. Vacations and special occasions are often not the time to wear new shoes. If anything, try them a few weeks beforehand to see if you're comfortable and your feet have adjusted.
You can ruin all the magnetism you've gained from the previous steps with shoes that make you feel uncomfortable or make you walk "strangely."
And conversely, you can elevate a look just by walking super confidently and comfortably.
5 - THE FRAGRANCE
The ultimate finishing touch. It doesn't have to be the trendy fragrance of the moment that costs hundreds of euros. I have several very expensive perfumes in my bathroom, gifts, etc. And my favorite fragrance is one that costs around €20. It's Sunflowers by Elizabeth Arden. From the day I smelled it, I identified with a fragrance like never before, and when I wear it, it gives me that extra boost of confidence and makes me feel like my best self, something that's impossible not to notice from the outside.
A good fragrance (we repeat, not necessarily expensive, but good for you) and well sprayed in strategic places (neck, hair, clothes, inside of wrists...) will go a long way to getting people to turn around and look at you...
You already have all our secrets to make them turn heads! Nothing would make us happier than knowing you're putting them into practice and seeing the results :)